How to Be Less Annoyed With People
If you are straightforward, honest and truthful, you can often be annoyed by different behaviours of the people around you. Some people have the tendency to lose control of themselves if things do not go according to their plans. At times, if you are fatigues or not well, you can get bothered by any sound, movement or distraction. However, it is imperative that with the passage of time you develop a habit of not getting annoyed very easily.
As a person matures, he starts to understand that by getting annoyed so easily, he is only harming his own self. An annoyed man often makes a mess of things, which can have an adverse effect on his life. It is crucial for you to learn to control your nerves and be patient, if you want to lead a peaceful life.
Most of the times, we get annoyed when we are desperately making an effort to concentrate on something, but someone else keeps creating distortions in any way.
Instructions
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Think before you react
You must not be impulsive in your reaction when you are being annoyed by a person or an activity for that matter. Once you start to get irritated at something, take a deep breath and talk to your own self. Ask yourself if the person who is annoying you deserves your anger and what would be the consequences of you losing your temper. Stay calm and react with a cool mind; otherwise, you will not be able to control the situation.
The best way is just to ignore the other person. Speak less and hear more.
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Talk to someone else
If you are getting annoyed by a person, then the ideal thing to calm yourself down in such a scenario is to speak to someone else generally. It will help you cool down and forget the annoyance.
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Do not show a poor body language
The worst thing you can do in such a scenario is to behave immaturely and show a poor body language, which reflects anger and annoyance. Just remain calm and do not give an impression that you have lost control of yourself. Facial expressions are also extremely important, which must show that you are not fazed by the annoyance.
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Pray regularly
Praying regularly and having a strong connection with God will help you overcome your conflicts and the inability to cope with certain situations. By praying, you can calm yourself down. The fear of God will urge you to react patiently and behave well with others, even when you are hard done by at times.
