Bachelor Parties From the Perspective of a Nude Strip Club Security Guard
Back some years ago, I worked as a “security specialist” at a nude strip club. I’ve seen these kinds of things with my own eyes ladies. Not all of them but many a good man has fallen when faced with a naked, gorgeous woman who’s rubbing her perfect body all over him.
The Pros: There aren’t really ANY as far as the relationship is concerned. But they do represent a male camaraderie that displays the bachelor’s last chance to go out and do the “single thing” with the guys. And that kind of thing can be quite fun for the guy. (and the other attendees of the party).
The Cons:
Ladies: Do you honestly want your man at a strip club with his buddies (who are very capable of keeping secrets) with drink flowing and BEAUTIFUL naked women rubbing all over him? Now not all strippers are prostitutes but prostitution in strip clubs is not unusual at all.
Most strip clubs work like this. The stripper goes up on the stage and performs on the pole. At that time guys can stuff bills in her g-string and that’s about as far as it goes. After she finishes her performance, the stripper will go around to every guy in the bar for tips. For these tips, she usually will do something like ride the mans knee with her chest in his face. Some will allow a bit of touching but it usually doesn’t go too far. Now perhaps your man isn’t the type to spend alot of extra money so he’s not a big tipper. But, you see this is his BACHELOR PARTY so it’s not likely that HE’LL have to pay for much anyway. Then there are back rooms at most strip clubs where the guys can pay a fee for a “one on one lap dance”. These rooms are private usually with a guy like me standing within earshot in case something gets out of hand.
Now MOST clubs have a “don’t ask don’t tell” policy for these private rooms meaning if the stripper decides to do anything “extra special” for the man in that room for extra money, it’s up to her but the club doesn’t want to know about it. The fee usually runs about $20. The stripper club gets $10 and the club gets $10.
Now here’s a common scenario and one I’ve seen a few times. Joe is at his bachelor party. He’s got 12 of his closest friends there. The club is alcohol free but you can bring your own. All the guys load up the car with all sorts of beer and liquor and bring it in with them. The first 30 min or so, everything is pretty tame. Then that one crazy buddy that your man has makes a suggestion. “Hey guys, let’s chip in and buy Joe a one on one”. So everyone is pretty drunk so they’re giving a bit more than they usually have.
Then crazy buddy walks up to this fine stripper, pointing at Joe the bachelor saying that this is his bachelor party and hands the stripper a wad of bills totaling about $210 and Mike’s gold chain and he tells the stripper to take Joe into the one on one room and “Rock his World”. Now that figure of $210 is NOT exaggerated at all. So this very hot naked lady takes your beloved Joe into the one on one room. Now not all strippers are prostitutes but what about this one? Is she? They go in the room and come back out about 30 min later. Joe just smiles and says he “had fun”. That could mean anything. He tells no details. Now are you comfortable and confident that nothing happened and she didn’t really do him any extra favors in that private room?
Sure, she may have just rode his knee for 30 min and not let him touch her. But can you be SURE? And even if you do trust your man completely, MANY guys (not all) if they’re in a situation where they KNOW that you won’t find out and nothing can be proved, many do things they wouldn’t normally do.
Bachelor parties can easily go wrong. Not all do but it’s a big risk and it should be well thought out before doing.
