Deciding to Go on a Third Date
Personality
Do you like his or her personality? Do you two get along just fine? Are you comfortable around each other? Do you two clash? These are all important things to think about. Do you notice any little annoying thing that the person does? Think about this! Make sure the person doesn’t drive you crazy.
Communication
Are you both able to communicate with each other? Can you two manage to a hold a interesting conversation? Make sure that the person doesn’t bore you. Be cautious if the person doesn’t talk much about themselves or is secretive.
Honesty
Is the person honest with you? Are you honest with the person? It isn’t good to start a relationship with lies. Are you sure the person isn’t married? Make sure that the person is really single and available.
Some people lie about not being married or often lie about being divorced when sometimes they aren’t really divorced.
Trust your feelings
If you feel that the person isn’t being honest with you then trust those feelings. Make sure to pay attention to any warning flags. Always do a background check before you even consider getting married to someone. Don’t ignore any weird feelings that you may have regarding a date.
Beliefs
Do you two have the same beliefs? Can you be with someone that doesn’t believe the same thing as you? Think about those things. Is the person spiritual? Does he or she believe in God? You both need to at least agree on some of the same things as far as beliefs.
Children
If you or him have any children then please take into consideration how his or your children might feel.
Pay attention to see if he takes care of his children. Does he talk to his children properly? Make sure he isn’t emotionally abusive to them. See if your children get along with his children.
Warning Signs
Be cautious if he or she talks about their ex husband or ex wife. Unless he or she has a valid reason for speaking that way about ex then be cautious that they might have issues. Be careful if he or she doesn’t pay child support and other bills. Another thing that is a warning sign is if the person doesn’t have much assets for someone that their age should have.
