Fourth of July Wedding

One thing a 4th of July wedding is not is formal. This should be a more casual affair because, well, the decorations and the atmosphere of a 4th of July wedding just do not lend themselves to formality. Colors are necessarily red, white, and blue, and motifs include stars, stripes, torches, fireworks, and the Statue of Liberty. But there are a few ideas that can keep you 4th of July wedding from degenerating into a complete kitsch-fest (that is, if you are trying to avoid one).

An outdoor reception is preferred for 4th of July weddings. Tables can be set up on a lawn or patio, preferably in a location that offers a view of the local area’s nighttime fireworks display. A barbeque provides the food. It is possible to have a catered barbeque if such an event is something that you do not want to deal with on your own. Grilled salmon or shrimp are higher-class alternatives to pork and beef. Offer summer berries as side dishes and desserts.

Blueberries and strawberries, topped with whipped cream, are perfect a homage to the colors of the theme. Plus, at a barbeque, no one expects a full bar. A couple of wines and beer in bottles (like Sam Adams – patriotic!) are sufficient. Make sure there is plenty of water and non-alcoholic punch for quests that don’t drink. Lemonade is another great and refreshing beverage at an outdoor summer reception.

Summer flowers that fit the colors include delphinium, daises, orchids, and roses. A nice bouquet of a mix of these summer flowers can be tied with red, white, and blue ribbons can be carried by the bride. A simple summer wedding dress, patterned after a sundress, is both casual and elegant. Feet shod in simple sandals complete the look. Flowers in the bride’s hair can also add a nice touch.

Centerpieces should be simple. Groups of small American flags, tied together and stuck in Styrofoam make nice centerpieces. Or use small colored vases to hold three to five miniature flags. Cover tables with blue cloths and tie red ribbons around white candles as centerpieces.

Small statuettes of the Statue of Liberty also make nice centerpieces. For a more casual look, fill mason jars with jellybeans colored red, white, and blue. Any of the centerpieces can be accented with a little confetti strewn about them.

Finally, pass out sparkles to your guests. When the fireworks are over, and the couple is ready to leave, have a final toast that ends with a sparkler salute.