I Know How to Catch the Attention of Every Man in the Room

I know how to catch the attention of every man in the room. I am often asked how do I do it. Am I the slimmest girl? No am I the prettiest? I’d like to think so and If I’m not I act like I am. Am I the most outspoken girl in the room? No but you’d never know the difference. Before I tell you my little secret I’ll first say this, I am often nervous like most women before I pratice what I’m about to preach but I don’t ever let nerves get in the way. I often worry about looking foolish later which is usually short lived when I receive one of a few calls from someone asking me out on friday night. When ever I’m in any social atmosphere where mingling and awkward conversation with the opposite sex is involved I incorporate what I call C.H.E.F

You’re probably wondering what those letters stand for other than the fact that I’m always cooking well here it is

C: obviously stands for confidence but don’t get confidence confused with arrogance or conceit that is where most beautiful women screw up. If you’re beautiful it’s safe to believe that you’re not the only person who thinks so. However, a certain level of confidence is needed to pull off the attention of a room filled with men. How do I do it I first make sure I love what I’m wearing, second I make sure I love how I smell (if it makes me feel sexy than it’s usually what I’m wearing) and I also make sure my best asset is the most noticeable (my eyes) No really my eyes. I am fortunate enough to be blessed with the strangest prettiest most noticeable eye color I and many others have ever seen. Once I’m feeling beautiful and sexy then my confidence level is high.

H: stands for humor I understand that most people struggle with being funny but it really isn’t quite hard when you’re listening to what others are saying. Most men like to laugh and a woman who likes to laugh means she is not so stuck up after all and men usually loosen up or begin to feel comfortable around a woman who likes to laugh or supply the laughs.

E: stands for eye contact. This is where it gets hard, in my personal experience eye contact is hard to master for anyone for the obvious reason of it not being returned. It is even harder if the attractive party is not of your racial background but this can be done. It’s easier in my opinion for a woman to pull this off. When looking at a man you have to know what message you want to send. Do you want an intimate encounter or would you like to see him past breakfast in bed. A look oozing with too much sexiness is a sure way to a one night stand. My personal favorite is a I think you are the best looking man in the room. This look is a lingering look that catches his attention and miraculously with out fail makes him notice you. He’ll be looking for you through out the night. Last but not least is F

F: stands for flirting. When I say flirting I don’t mean the usual hair toss and playful grin but ego stroking I have the unanimous vote from every guy I know that a woman who knows how to make him feel like he is important or his work and life’s passion is important is the most desirable creature on earth. I practice c.h.e.f where ever there are men and I am single. Hey! I even practice it continously with the lucky guy I’m seeing seriously. Try it sometimes ladies and call me in between your phone calls.