Is Your Boyfriend Not Marriage Material?
1. Does your boyfriend go from job to job? This is a sign of what your life would be like if you were to marry him. You would most likely have financial issues since he can’t keep a job for long term. Poor work history is usually a poor reflection of ones character.
2. Does your boyfriend not manage money well? This is another indication that it would be a bad idea to marry this guy since he can’t manage money very well. You may say that money isn’t the important thing in the world, but it takes money to pay the mortgage or rent and keep the power turned on each month.
3. Does your boyfriend have poor credit and doesn’t care about paying his bills? If he doesn’t care about his credit then he most likely won’t care about messing up your credit either. Unless he has a good reason for having bad credit such as severe medical issues, or once owned a company that went bankrupt then be concerned.
4. Does your boyfriend not own a car ? Most people are able to afford to own a car either new or a older one. Be concerned if your boyfriend doesn’t own a car. If he has to walk everywhere then he is probably not very reliable. If your boyfriend says that he can’t afford to buy a car or even a older car then be worried. He won’t be able to provide you with basic living expenses that people need.
5. Does your boyfriend not have a drivers license or has a suspended drivers license? Be concerned if your boyfriend doesn’t have a drivers a license or can’t manage to keep one in good standing. It shows that he is not a very responsible person. He may tell you that it is suspended due to not paying his parking tickets, but if he can’t manage to pay his tickets then be concerned.
6. Does your boyfriend have kids that he doesn’t visit often? If he neglects to see his children from a previous relationship then be concerned. If he tells you that the mom won’t let him see his children then ask why. If he gives you an answer that seems fishy or if you feel that something doesn’t quite add up then you need to investigate further.
7. Does your boyfriend not pay child support on a regular basis? This is a major sign. Be concerned if he doesn’t care about taking care of his children. He may use every excuse for not paying child support or being late, but it shows that he not very responsible. It is a sign of the way he would be with you if you ever had kids with him. Be careful.
8. Does your boyfriend not care about his stuff or your stuff ? If he doesn’t care about your stuff or his stuff then be concerned. He shows that he doesn’t care about things and doesn’t realize the value of stuff. If he doesn’t take care of his stuff properly such as expensive things then it shows he is not very responsible.
9. Does your boyfriend have a past history of being violent or being abusive in any other way? If the answer is yes then you need to leave the relationship immediately and perhaps get a restraining order against him since he is dangerous to women. Be very concerned if he has any past records of domestic violence.
10. Does your boyfriend have a long criminal record? If he has been in and out of jail constantly then it isn’t a good idea to be in a relationship with him. He is not very responsible and it isn’t worth spending money on bail to get him out of jail almost all the time.
