Safe Sex: Abstinence Doesn’t Equal No Sex

Sex is something that most people like to talk and brag about. However, not enough of them like to talk about the reasons why Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) spread so rapidly, why relationships are shallow and why sexual experiences become disappointing in some cases.

Doesn’t matter if your goal is to build a healthy relationship or simply experience pleasurable sex, you must first learn to experience pleasure and also to protect yourself from STIs. Abstinence is always a solution and it doesn’t necessarily mean ? no sex at all, rather it means no sex with a partner to prevent yourself from STIs Ã?¬? and from people with bad intentions.
When sexual urges surface, taking things into your own hands could be your best and safest alternative, in the appropriate setting, of course.

Men are not shy about their practices. It’s a guy thing. Taking a magazine to the bathroom or watching porn during a gentle handshake solves their problems. However, some women treat female masturbation as taboo. But why, ladies? Aren’t we fighting for equality with men? Don’t women deserve the same sexual freedom as men?

Women have a great advantage over any man. They can have multiple orgasms within short periods of time without the need for recovery time. Nevertheless, without exploring your own body’s reactions to touch, it is hard to show your partner what to do for you to reach climax even once.

Female masturbation is not only a great self-discovery method, it is also useful tool to entertain or replace a useless lover.
Self-respect and knowing your wants and needs are the first steps to experience satisfying sex. Finding the right person is the second, but not the least important, ingredient. In the good old times, flirting from a distance and slowly advancing from seductive eye contact to gentle touching and kissing was preferred.

However, today’s youth don’t find the slow process as exciting as the oldies. It seems that they don’t have the patience to wait longer than a few hours to find someone to make love to, which puts them in great risks of STIs âÂ?¦ and disappointments.
Teenage years are when most people go wild and want to experience climax over and over � and over again, without thinking of the consequences.

Not only is their life in danger of becoming emotionally empty, but they also put themselves at the risks for all kinds of diseases, some of which are deadly. Abstinence from sexual partners might not be a choice for everyone, but condoms should be on the minds of all sexually active men and women to protect against STIs.

Even masturbation, considered the safest sexual activity from STIs, is not completely safe when toys are not properly handled. Personal hygiene is an essential element of safe sex with or without a partner. Mental awareness and physical readiness are musts for a pleasurable sexual experience. Taking time cannot only result in a stronger relationship, but also more satisfaction as well.