Size Does Matter

What happens when you wake up only to find that you’ve been deceived? The package you see before you doesn’t quite match up with the rumors. A cleverly hidden secret, you find yourself baffled by what exudes from the person you thought you knew. You can’t decide whether to laugh or cry and you now find yourself a total mismatch from your current mate. How could they? Deception is the pipeline to your fury. You’ve always heard people carrying on about how it’s not the size that counts but you now find that they are sadly mistakenâÂ?¦have totally been led astray by the hype. To add insult to injury, you are suddenly bombarded by further acts of betrayalâÂ?¦your partner has become the definitive Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde. What do you do?

How do you communicate with someone who has led you astrayâÂ?¦tricked you into believing that they are the total package? Once you get past the initial shock, you find yourself feeling amazingly shallow; because you never thought to investigate the situation for yourself. The very important lesson “trust no one’s information but your own,” never came to mind and you find yourself making up excuses which leave you sounding illiterate. Perhaps, you misinterpreted the numerous counts of advice you frantically sought and now the package is revealed as nothing short of PATHETIC.

For those of you who think you know where I’m going, you really don’t. You hear people talk about the size of the package and, automatically; visions of male body parts begin dancing in your head. You act as if you haven’t a clue as to why you find yourself in a series of real-time horror shows. You go on and on about how you always get the bad end of the stick and always end up with drama, drama and more drama. Well now, let’s evaluate the situation in depth. Perhaps you should stop basing your relationships on men who look good in front of the camera but beneath are portraits of emotional distress. Maybe, as men; you should try looking past breasts and behinds and actually get to know the person within the shell.

Because we live in a shallow society, many people dwell in the superficial realm and never touch that which is genuine. We reach for substance with no idea of how to grasp. We view the external and dismiss the internal. Instead of taking the time to tap into intellect, we create conjured up lines for the situation. We dive into a person’s bed, before ever taking a swim in their mentality.

Is the vision of the perfect package now becoming clearer?

Summary

So you see…SIZE REALLY DOES MATTER…just not in the areas we are known to place emphasis on.

Find someone with a sizable personality / heart and you’ve found someone worth spending your life with. Ladies, get past the “big feet, big hands” mentality and really analyze the man you allow to take your time. Men, move beyond your ideal woman who is the babe with the junk in the trunk, pouty mouth, bra size FF and actually view the innate wholesomeness of women.

I guarantee, if we begin to become more involved in the personalities of those in our presence, we will begin making better choices for ourselves and those who depend on us to not bring the next serial killer to our doorstep.