Talking to Your Child About Sex Abuse
If unfortunately something were to happen to your child, forewarn your child that it is NEVER their fault. It is only the fault of the culprit. They should not feel guilty, ashamed of themselves, or think you will ever be upset with them. In most local libraries, you can find age appropriate books talking about child sexual abuse. These books can help assist in helping you to get your point across. Some books even encourage role playing. This helps to imbed in your child’s mind what to do if a situation occurs. Some parents find it helpful to use the bathing suit rule. They teach their child that whatever their bathing suit covers, it where their private parts are and should never be touched. Explain to them that sometimes a doctor may have to look at these area of their body, but mommy or daddy will always be there with them.
Every so often repeat the conversation with your child to help reinforce the point of the topic. It should be recognized that child abuse is very serious, and it can happen to people we love. Sheltering your child or pretending as if the problem does not exist in the world is one of the worst things to do to a child. By having an open line of communication, it shows that you are their for them emotionally and want to try your best to help protect them.