Ten Greek Wedding Traditions
Dowry. Although the idea of a dowry may seem obsolete to some people, it is still a Greek tradition. The mother of the bride usually spends years collecting a variety of things from sheets to towels and other household items for her daughter’s marriage. The dowry enables the bride to set up housekeeping.
Engagement. A Greek tradition that is also found in other parts of the world is the marriage request. The potential groom will meet with the bride’s parents and ask for their daughter’s hand in marriage.
Wedding Date. While most cultures allow a couple to get married any day they choose, the Greek tradition is slightly different. Couples are not allowed to marry on certain dates during the year. These days are most of the country’s Christian observances such as Lent and the Christmas holidays.
Rings. The engagement rings, which also serve as the wedding rings, are traditionally blessed twice. When the couple becomes officially engaged, the priest blesses the rings and the couple will wear the rings on their left hand until the wedding. At the wedding ceremony, the priest once again blesses the rings at which time the bride and groom switches the rings to the right hand.
Crowns. During the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom are adorned with crowns that are connected by a single strand of ribbon. This signifies the union of the couple as well as indicates the pair’s “rule” over their household.
Party Favors. Candied almonds are considered a favorite at some wedding receptions. However, at a Greek wedding, candied almonds are given to guests immediately following the ceremony. The almonds are usually distributed in a cloth or tulle covering and guests can expect to receive an odd number of the edible delicacies.
Dances. There are two significant dances associated with a Greek wedding. The first, the Isaiah dance, is performed by the bride and groom during the ceremony. Afterwards the couple is part of another dance. This one, called the Kaslamantiano, is performed in a circle during the reception.
Koumparo. Koumparo is the Greek wedding tradition of the groom and his attendant preparing for the wedding ceremony. During this time, musicians, playing traditional Greek music, accompany the groom to the church. After this, the musicians will go to the home of the bride and travel with her as she makes her way to the ceremony.
Nyphostoli. Once the mother’s dowry has been given to the bride and groom, the tradition of Nyphostoli takes place. Local girls will volunteer to set up and decorate the household for the newly married couple.
Receptions. Greek wedding receptions are lively events. Guests are treated to native food and music as well as traditional Greek dancing.
Gifts. Giving newlyweds gifts during the reception is a common occurrence in most cultures. Greek traditions also allow for something slightly different. A person attending a Greek wedding reception should not be surprised to see guests pinning items such as money to the bride’s gown.
Anyone who has the opportunity to attend a Greek wedding is in for a treat. With deep ceremonial traditions and a flare for lively receptions, a Greek wedding is an event not to be missed.
