The Big Pay-Off to a Sense of Humor – Meet Woman By Making Them Laugh

What do you think women find the most attractive in a man? Big muscles? Uh-uh. Money? Nope. Your girlfriend can’t go to the movies with your money (on second thoughtâÂ?¦). Large peeney? Get real! That may be good in the short term, but at some point, the two of you will have to eventually get out of bed and may even attempt to speak.

Nope. At the end of the day, that pretty young thing will keep coming back for more because you made her LAUGH.

But let’s face it – humor is not easy. I’m not talking about the telling-funny-jokes-type of humor. Although funny jokes will make you the life of the party. Nope, I’m taking about witty one-liners. Cute comebacks. And a generally sunny and funny outlook on life. Some people think that humor is easy, that anybody can be funny with very little work. But this is not true. To be funny there are a lot of things you must know and a lot of situations you must prepare for.

First and foremost – you must have an audience. In this case it’s an audience of one as in “it’s the woman you want to meet”. Second, you must discover whether the woman you want to meet has a sense of humor. This leads into what I call the “feeling out” stage of a relationship. Upon meeting someone, nervous energy allows us to laugh at just about anything. And that’s a good thing. Because you see right away what type of chemistry you have with your partner. You say something – they laugh. They respond and you chuckle and say something else in hopes of a laugh. Pretty soon you’re both doing stand-up comedy and you forgot you main objective was to get this woman into your bed.

WHATEVER YOU DO – rememberâÂ?¦there’s nothing funny about making fun of another person. Especially if that other person is someone you want to continue seeing. Funny is one thingâÂ?¦sarcasm is anotherâÂ?¦and criticism is yet another. Make someone laugh and you’ll have their attention forever. Make fun of them or their taste in clothes or shoes and you’ll be cracking jokes to yourself on a street corner.

Self-depreciating humor is always a good thing because it shows that we’re human. But don’t go overboard. A quick one-liner like, “So what are we gonna do about that small dick of mine?” might draw a laugh, but latter that night it might be cause for some anxiety. Especially if the new woman in your life comments later, ” so what ARE we gonna do about that small dick of yours?”

Balance out the humor with the less humorous. Being funny is like catching a fish. You can hook your potential partner with a cute one-liner, but after you reel them in, try showing of your intelligence. Speak about current affairs, talk about starving kids in Ethiopia. Don’t keep cracking jokes like you’re doing a Johnny Carson monologue.

Humor in bed IS funny. Sex IS funny. O-kâÂ?¦romance, candles and soft music have their place. But a funny one-liner can sure cut through some first night jitters. Try making a “scrunchy face” early in the evening. And when she asks what you’re doing you can reply, “I’m practicing my O-face for when we have sex laterâÂ?¦”

Humor has its place in a relationship! And whether that relationship lasts one night�one month or forever just remember: a chuckle a day will keep a stale relationship at bay.