Why Women Should Never Date a Married Man
Some women do like to date married men due to the risk and excitement. It is sad. Most of the time they often don’t realize just how much damage is being done. They often just care about sex only. Sometimes though one person does end up having feelings for another. It isn’t fair to the wife in a marriage when another woman is taking her husband away. The wife is the innocent person in the entire affair that her husband is doing.
The wife doesn’t deserve to go through a ton of emotional hurt through deception by the husband and his new lover. When woman get involved with a married man it is cause of bad intentions and she doesn’t care how much damage it will cause on the wife and husband. The women doesn’t care about them being married since she does wreck his marriage even more and doesn’t care about the wife. The woman will usually try to justify her actions to destroy the marriage of husband and wife by cheating.
Most women who cheat with someone that is married only does it because it is about power. Power that she can take him away from the wife. Sometimes it doesn’t work though. It happens often that the man won’t divorce his wife. Sometimes he decides to go back to his wife and will try to improve his marriage. In certain cases the women that is cheating with the man sometimes she doesn’t even know that he is married. Some married men do lie about being married sometimes.
Guilt will usually catch up to one of them either the woman or the man who cheats. One of them will usually put an end to the cheating if they truly really feel guilty about it. Certain men can only cheat so long because they just can’t handle living a double lifestyle. The guilt starts to bug them from day to day. Some other men don’t feel guilty and have no desire to improve their marriage. Men will sometimes get divorced and then end up getting married to the partner that they cheated on their ex wife with. Sometimes divorce is the best option when there is no hope left in the marriage.
The wife may feel anger, sad, and often does feel that is her fault that her husband cheated on her. She may often wonder what she did wrong to cause her husband to cheat on her. The truth is that the wife did nothing wrong. Cheating happens because the husband wanted to cheat on her. A husband who cheats will do it despite what his wife may have said or did.
There is something wrong with the husband since he didn’t file for divorce if he was so unhappy in his marriage, but instead he cheated on his wife. It is sad that some men take marriage not serious.
It is the even more hurtful when the husband gets the wife or the other woman pregnant. It makes things twenty time as difficult when an pregnancy occurs. It is very tough for people to deal with and especially when cheating is going on.
Cheating can be forgiven only when both parties are willing to work things out in the marriage. It will take a while for someone to forgive someone that cheats. It takes time to build trust again. They will always wonder if that person is cheating again since it happened before.
