How to Become Friends With Someone Who Rejected You
The world does not end on a rejection neither does a relationship. When you realize this fact your life will improve a lot and you will observe a positive outlook about it. Rejections are a part of life. Just because a single person rejected you does not mean the whole world will. However, at times the person is so good that you still want to remain friends. This may be hard, owing to the circumstances but if you act like a mature and grown up person, you can easily manage to do that and emerge out of it as a stronger person. Our step by step guide lends you some advice below.
Instructions
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Scrutinize her reasons:
There must be some very valid reasons for the rejection. When you try to understand them, you will no longer blame yourself and will be ready to take it in a grown up manner without being disheartened. A rejection does not mean that you give up on the person. You can always be good friends and have her in your life. -
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Act mature:
Accept it as part of life and something inevitable. Tell yourself that things like these can happen with any one and you are not only single rejected one out there. When you accept it and make peace with it, things are not going to appear that bitter and you can move on the grudge. It will be easier to become friends with the person now without letting the bitter experience come between you. You will also be admired by him at how well you took it and dealt with it. -
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Do not avoid:
Take your time to get over the hurt and heal. However, act cool and do not avoid the person. Act nice although it might be very hard. Talk it out with someone who has been through it and understands the feeling. This will take the load off your chest and you will find it easier to the person.
