How to Encourage Your Partner
Talking to your partner can be very tough if she or he is a shy person or if you have just gotten into a relationship. Usually couples do talk about different stuff between them but often they ignore to talk about certain stuff because of certain reasons. It could be lack of speaking skills, lack of confidence and shyness.
However, there are ways that can guide you about how to encourage your partner. Now encouraging doesn’t mean that you have to encourage her/him about speaking up. You can encourage her or him in different ways and to do different things.
Instructions
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If your partner is unwilling to talk to you about a particular issue or is avoiding asking you for something that can ruin the charm of a relationship. Relationships can become very dull and boring in this case and you must solve this if you want to have a fruitful and fun relationship.
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Try to find the emotional connection with your partner and once you have found that, go an extra mile to make things better. Ask your partner about the things that are bothering her/him and how can you help her or him. Hold her/his hands, look into her or his eyes, give her/him a shoulder massage, show that you love her/him and you will be there for her/him no matter what.
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Try to make it as comfortable as possible for your partner. Encourage your partner to talk and do random stuff. Do not laugh if she or he does something stupid and stand by her/him no matter what. And try to talk about emotions. Get intimate and talk about your feelings. Talk about your parents' issues if you have any. Ask her/him about the childhood and random stuff so that she/he gets more open and confident.
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Another thing that you can do in order to encourage your partner is to help her or him do the little things. Offer your help while she or he is cleaning dishes or set the table while she is cooking. It’s the little things that matter and step by step, you can make bigger things better and it will affect your whole relationship is a very positive manner.
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Try to get informal with your partner. Formality can be a joy killer so you need to be as relaxed as possible with your partner. Do not make your relationship hard for both of you and try not to set boundaries. Be frank, friendly, and enjoy your relationship.
