How to Keep Yourself Safe from Date Rape in London
A common viewpoint about rape is that it is done in a murky corner by some frightening stranger lurking in a dark cal-de-sac. But this is as untrue as the fact that the problem of rape does not exist in London. A large proportion of rape victims report that the act is committed by someone they know and/or trust. This includes cases of date rape, where the victims’ partner forces themselves on them. Since this is something that can happen to anyone, it is mandatory to stay informed and know how to keep yourself safe from being a victim of date rape in London, no matter how much you trust your companion.
Instructions
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Stay informed about date rape drugs available in the market that will help in making the victim unconscious or groggy, and never leave your drink unattended since the drug can be added into it. If you have to leave, make sure you leave the drink with somebody you absolutely trust. But if you realize the drink remained unattended, don’t drink it!
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Always try and pour your own drink or let a bartender/waitress do it for you. And do not drink if it the beverage is in an open container.
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Avoid going to secluded, isolated places with your partner until you can trust them. Try and stay within a crowd so even if your partner is planning something suspicious, he/she cannot act out those plans.
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Don’t spend time alone with a person who you are even slightly suspicious of, or who makes you feel uncomfortable and uneasy. Sometimes our instincts can tell us more than our conscious mind can.
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If you are with someone you don’t trust that well, stay sober and aware. Don’t drink and let the intoxication affect your consciousness.
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If you feel the need to ask for help, don’t hesitate. If you feel your date is coming onto you too strongly, leave immediately.
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Ideally, you should take a self-defense course and/or keep pepper spray with you in case of any eventuality. Find information regarding companies that impart self-defense training below:
The British Academy of Krav Maga in London
Women Only Krav Maga, self defence in London
Cougar Club of Jujitsu and Unarmed Self Defence