How to Parent TroubledTeen Girls
At times, teenage girls can prove themselves hard to handle. As they reach the phase of their maturity, they often get stubborn and frenzy. One should be very careful while dealing with a girl in her teenage phase, as this is the phase where they learn all the things and make their habits.
If not dealt with properly, they often result in being a defiant teenager; therefore one should be very precautious while handling them. In the teenage phase, their body starts developing and their emotional element gets heightened. Not only that; but their ability to rebel is also in the making process. You should understand that all this change is not without a reason but as they feel a lot of pressure in this phase that is why they feel exhausted.
They often fight with themselves in order to figure out who they really are as they feel confused in all ways. All of this will not start in a single day but you will have a clear idea of whether she is anxious or not. If you feel that your child is being angry at a particular thing unusually, then it is a clear sign of her rebellious phase. You should start thinking of ways in which you can handle her properly as all the necessary grooming takes place in this phase.
Instructions
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You should spend some time alone with her and ask her about the problems she faces in the teenage phase. She might be hesitant in the start but if you keep asking her in suitable ways, she will share her problems with you.
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Remember that, she might have a problem in sharing something with you face to face. To cater this, you should build a suggestion box and ask her to write the problem on a page and drop it in here, as this works most of the time.
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You might want to check her rooms as it could lead you to understand the reason for her troubled behaviour. Do search her room for condoms, drinks, drugs or anything unusual.
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During this process, you should put a pause on trying to assume something about her until you figure out the problem.
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Visiting her school can be very helpful. You should talk to her instructors and enquire about her behaviour in the school.
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There is always a chance that you can be a root cause for her problem, so you should take her to a counsellor as if not with you, she will open herself to the counsellor and then you will be able to take care of the problem.
