Top 10 Ways to become more Friendly & Social
Friends are like elevators which either glide you up or down in your life. They help boost you up when you are down or depressed. On the other hand friends keep your feet on the ground when you earn some big achievement. Thus friends buffer extremities of life. Remember that every friend is important as they add a different flavour to the life. You should make several friends in life. However, you cannot become favourite in front of everyone’s eyes. Follow some simple tips and guidelines in order to become more friendly and social.
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Extend your hand first
You should extend your hand first and take initiative in friendship if you want to increase your circle of friends. There might be few people who will extend their hands first but it is advisable that you take the initiative in order to find good buddies.
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Be yourself
You should avoid portraying fake qualities. Just be yourself when approaching others. Faking out will only create problems, you should stay the way you are. Remember that lies will eventually pop up one day and you will have to face many problems. You need to stay transparent and the person who accepts you as you are will turn out to be a good buddy.
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Keep smiling
You should always keep smiling when hunting for new friends. No matter what you are wearing, smiling should always be on you. By this you will also know whether a person is interested in friendship or not
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Be optimistic
Always try to be optimistic and admire others’ good habits. If a person is not behaving well or have bad mood, you should remind yourself of how good buddy he is. Ignore bad traits and admire everything good about him.
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Don’t judge anyone on his appearance
Avoid judging others on their appearances. If you see a man who is cunning-looking, it does not mean he is not nice or innocent. Similarly a beautiful girl won’t necessarily be proud, she might actually be sweet. Do not make judgement of people after first meeting or first sight.
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Ignore personal details
Refrain from digging into personal details of others. You should avoid asking how much you earn, how you got that burning mark or even why you are not speaking to him etc. If the other person is behaving differently, you need to ask him then what the matter is.
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Show interest in your friends
Remember that friendship involves mutual understanding. Thus you should not focus on yourself but take care about your friend. Don’t act selfish and avoid talking about your life all the time. Take interest in your friend and be a good listener.
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Talk impressively
You might come across several people but the person you remember is the one whom you had fun talking to. You can make witty jokes and add humour in order to take the attention of other person.
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Consider yourself equal to your friend
You should not think of your friend superior or inferior. Avoid showing ego or having inferiority complex. You need to set same mental level to interact with others.
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Socialize more
You need to attend more events and parties in order to socialize more and make more friends.
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