Top 10 Ways to Deal with Insecurities
It’s a fast moving world and if you keep on getting insecure, it will just make you stagnant and take you nowhere.
A person needs to be confident and sure of him/herself in order to excel. You may seem good on the surface but many of us are victims of insecurities deep down. Different people are insecure about different things like relations, finances, future etc.
First you need to come to terms with your insecurities and then try to work on them.
Instructions
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Don’t Ignore
One of the many mistakes that we commit is ignoring our problems. If you keep telling yourself that you are fine, when in fact you are not, than one day you will break down.
So never ignore your issues.
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Talk
Keeping everything inside is not easy. If you have well wishers around you, tell them about your problems. You will feel light and they might be able to give you an appropriate solution or tell you that your insecurities are baseless.
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Don’t give up or give in
If you have a problem, do not give up in finding its solution. If it’s your partner who is insecure, you need to talk and help him/her overcome it. It shouldn’t be the case that you have to constantly change yourself because of your partner’s insecurities.
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Dig it out
A problem can only be solved if you go to its roots. If you don’t find a solution, dig deeper. If there is no reason, then your insecurity is baseless.
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Remain Busy
If you keep yourself busy, you are less likely to think of your insecurities. You will be doing something productive so your mind will not wander off to baseless problems.
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They are not Experts
You may tell your problems to a friend or any other close person, but keep in mind that they are not expert on your issues. Do not follow their advices blindly.
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Trust
If you are in a relationship, the best cure for insecurity is trust. Learn to trust your partner and you will be at peace.
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Some principles
If you have some rules in the relations, you are less likely to get insecure by the other persons' actions. Also learn to give space to your partner.
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Self-Confidence
Confidence can scare away any insecurity. If you are confident, you will make yourself believe that you are ready to tackle anything.
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Stop Comparison
Do not ever start comparing to others in a relation. You will never be satisfied and this will give rise to more insecurities.
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